Monday, May 19, 2014

goodbye school, welcome summer.

Dun dun dun dun!!! The blog is back! 

Well, the blog never really went anywhere. Mary, on the other hand, has been slightly off her blogging game for a good minute. All down time has been spent either sleeping or reading Anne of Green Gables to my little heart's content. But now that the homework, deadline, sadness-filled cloud of school has lifted, I am finally free to have free time. What a gift! Goodbye school and welcome summer! 

But first, how about some post-freshman-year-of-college-musings? And maybe a few more hyphenated-words while-I'm-at-it. 

Let's start with a favorite memory. One of my professors this past semester unknowingly imparted some wisdom to me. As I was making up a quiz in her office, she asked me rather nonchalantly if she should cancel class that coming Friday. At first, I was a little confused as to why a college professor would ask me a question that seemed entirely up to her authority. I uttered a very questioning “yes?” to which she agreed: “I was leaning that way, too," she said with a smile, "Sometimes, one of the greatest gifts you can give someone is time.”

And how true that statement rings. Time. With pending homework assignments and service hours to complete, in college, I believe that you learn a whole new outlook on time and how to make the most of it (or how to professionally waste it). From living in the dorms to all-nighters in the library, to movie nights when class magically gets cancelled, there is always somewhere to be, someone to hang out with, and something to do. Balance is an invaluable skill. Freshie Mary and Mary today has changed and grown up a lot and it’s been one whirlwind of a learning and growing season.

Here are some lessons that I learned along the way. Maybe these can help you out, or maybe you can laugh along with me. Either is perfectly fine with me! 

During freshman year, you learn how little sleep you can function on. If you get eight hours, it’s a miracle. So sleep. Sleep as much as you can.

Coffee is a prized miracle liquid with magical awakening powers. Utilize this power daily.

When running late for your 9:10 class, it’s amazing how a ten minute walk can turn into a five minute sprint sot keep you from missing that blessed sign-in sheet that gets taken up at 9:12.

Rain at MTSU is code for "prepare to be soaking wet unless you acquire a rain jacket, an umbrella, rain boots, a kayak, and a paddle."

Showering in flip-flops is a tough habit to break once you move home for the summer.


Honor your commitments. Don’t be a flake. Nobody likes a flake. But for real, if you commit to something, follow through, no matter how difficult it is. 

The cafeteria ladies are probably the sweetest people I’ve ever met. Make friends with them.

When your planner is completely full of events and assignments and tests and you don’t know how you will ever make it through the next two weeks alive, breath. Take it one day at a time. Hunker down and get work done. This too shall pass.

Spend time with Jesus. When you feel utterly confused or overwhelmed, sometimes a good cry and a moment in the presence of the Lord puts everything back into perspective. Don’t be afraid to be weak. He is strong in our weakest moments. And thank goodness for His grace.

Peace out year one. Here’s to a splendid summer!